7 Core Beliefs That Changed My Business When Nothing Else Worked
The promise of designing a business aligned with your beliefs
There are many strategies, frameworks, and well-packaged ideas out there that sound good on paper but are completely disconnected from how you want to live and work.
That’s where this starts: not with a to-do list or a fancy system, but with your beliefs.
I didn’t figure this out by reading a book or taking a course. I figured it out when I hit obstacles over and over, trying to fit into systems that weren’t built for me. I’d find myself halfway through implementing something — a project management tool, a marketing funnel, a productivity hack — and feel irritated and sick. It wasn’t just resistance; it was a misalignment.
The breakthrough wasn’t a big aha moment. It was quieter: a slow realization that if I kept chasing these solutions, I’d never create something that actually fit my life or work.
The False Belief?
Success comes from following the right system, the right framework, or the right template — even if it doesn’t feel like you.
This idea is everywhere because it shelters us from harder truths. It says: just follow these steps, and you’ll get these results. But it disconnects you from your instincts, which can slowly wash away your confidence. It sneaks in quietly: when you think you need the shiny new tool to be “successful,” when you think your growth has to look like someone else’s, when you ignore what you know works because it’s not trendy.
The Moment of Truth: The Shift in Perspective
I realized I had to stop outsourcing my direction and define my foundation—a set of core beliefs I could return to no matter what.
These weren’t picked from thin air. They were earned through trial and error, by noticing what made me feel energized versus drained, clear versus chaotic, aligned versus performative.
The New Mindset: Core Principles
1. Clarity over chaos
If I can’t explain why I’m doing something or how I’ll know it worked, it’s a no. Simplicity and clear purpose win every time.
2. Simplicity over scale
Not everything needs to grow. Some things just need to work. I value small, sturdy systems over bloated complexity.
3. Useful over shiny
Trendy tools and tactics don’t impress me. I choose what earns its place because it delivers, not because it's trendy.
4. Flexibility is freedom
Rigid systems break me in real life. I need solutions that bend and flex with me.
5. Boundaries create ease
Knowing what’s not for me is the one thing that keeps my energy level high.
6. Everything is testable
There’s no one right way — only what’s right right now. Experimenting keeps me sharp.
7. If it doesn’t energize me, it’s a hard pass
Simple as that.
Living This Mindset: Real-World Impact
These aren’t just ideas; they shape how I run projects, test tools, and make decisions. I stopped hoarding every new tool, book, and course - because it added more resistance than help.
I once dropped a popular productivity app mid-launch because it created barriers where there should have been ease. Instead, I rebuilt a simpler version in Notion—not because it was fancy, but because it worked for me.
These basics bring me back to center when I'm about to make things harder than necessary. They remind me I don’t have to prove anything by making things flashier.
Let’s Quietly Reflect
Where in your business are you using something just because you think you should?
Where are you ignoring your own instincts?
What would it look like to set your own filters for alignment?
What’s one thing you could let go of right now?
The Bigger Journey
Your business doesn’t have to follow someone else’s playbook. You get to define what works, what matters, and what you’re building toward.
The best place to start? With the beliefs that will keep you grounded, no matter how the tactics shift.
I’ll share more next time on the core questions I use to keep myself aligned when the noise creeps in.